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Armed with Persistence, Tosha Brize Takes ‘Brize Collection’ to New Heights With Celebrity Clientele!
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| (Tosha Brize - the humbled mastermind behind Brize Collection) |
Tosha Brize is gifted. Tosha Brize believes in the concept and act
of “persistence.” Tosha Brize ignored the lack of support she received and now
adorns celebrities with her one-of-a-kind collection. Those were just some of the thoughts swirling around my head
after the 33-year old entrepreneur and I chatted on the phone for more than an
hour last week.
As a tweetaholic, I obsessively follow tons
of awesome folks on Twitter. This includes Tami Roman, one of the original
Reality TV stars in, literally, history. Way before her current role on
“Basketball Wives,” and before she founded TR LOVE Cosmetics and her own line
of Virgin Hair, Tami was one of seven “strangers picked to live in a house” on
MTV’s “The Real World: Los Angeles” Season 2. So combine my love for social
media, Reality TV, and fashion, and…BAM – I did what I had to do! I noticed a
tweet between Tami and Tosha in regards to a special fashion item being sent to
the Reality TV star. Curious (and ok, nosey), as to what was being sent to
Tami, I checked out Tosha’s page and saw all kinds of sparking, fun goodies in
her photos!
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| (Chanel-inspired Chucks!) |
The Chanel symbol, Hello Kitty, roses, gold,
pearls, zippers, chains...wow. The elements that Tosha uses to recreate simple
pairs of high-top Chucks are incredible. She was turning fashion out, and it seemed as though Tami was
receiving her own pair of customized shoes directly from Tosha. So I
immediately tweeted Tosha, gave her my email address, and asked her to contact
me because I would love to feature her on Good Girl Gone Shopping. And then
after the successful coordination and connection between two busy women, we
made it happen!
In our exclusive interview, which is in fact,
her very first interview regarding Brize Collection, Tosha talks about her
journey as an artist, her passion in creating personalized accessories and
shoes (LaLa Anthony and Trina Rockstarr are also fans of her work), what keeps
her inspired, and what she has in store for us in 2014. So it is with pleasure
and an honor that I introduce you to Tosha Brize, the creator and beautiful
spirit behind Brize Collection. Born and bred in Champaign, Illinois and now based
in Orlando, Florida, Tosha’s brand is built on the formula of talent, passion,
and determination.
So how did you get started? Tell me about the beginning…
Well, I started making accessories with my
mother. We would get together on Sunday nights at her house and make earrings
and necklaces, and we would customize. That was our bonding moment. We would watch our favorite reality shows and
make accessories! And then, I had a friend who was on Facebook, and I sent her
some pieces. Her name is Janet Jackson, and she is a big-time event planner in
Atlanta. And she said, “You know what? Tosha your stuff is amazing! Start
posting your stuff on the Internet.” And I was like, “Really?! You think it’s
all that?” And Janet said, “Yeah, show people what you’re doing. You would be
surprised at who’s looking at your pictures.” So I had started just posting the
pictures of the jewelry and I got a lot of people’s feedback on the buzz –
based on what they liked and what they didn’t like.
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| (Janet Jackson - Tosha's friend who encouraged her to use Facebook for Brize Collection promo.) |
I have always customized shoes, blue jeans,
khakis, and stuff ever since I was a little girl. When I was young, my older
cousin and aunts would go to the clubs, and I would draw and paint on their
blue jeans…and do graffiti art, like Bart Simpson. I one time took my mom’s MC
Hammer album and painted the whole album on the back of a jacket. So I would
draw, paint, and do the graffiti down the pant leg, like I said with Bart
Simpson, and other cartoon characters like Bugs Bunny, and I would make them
look urban – the hip hop look, you know?
So I had put that away, and then in time, I
had gotten into doing customized jewelry. And I was like, “I’m gonna bring that
back.” Then once I started doing the jewelry, such as the earrings and necklaces,
I decided to go further with it. Then I started customizing the shoes with the
matching jackets, and then the blue jeans to match the shoes. Especially for
the kids – I do stuff for kids as well, not just for adults.
Then I had a good friend of mine, Ericka King
said “I want some Chucks.” So I said, “What colors do you want on them?” And
she said, “I want Chanel-inspired Chucks.”
And I said, “Alright, I got you.” Erika said she wanted them to be
pearl, gold, and bling. So these are another set of Chucks that I did, which
are different from Tami’s. I always make sure that my pieces are exclusive. No
shoes look the same. So I always do different patterns and different looks. So
with the Chanel-inspired looks, what I do is: I turn a purse into a shoe. I get
a lot of my inspirations and my visions from Instagram, and I will go through
all the Chanel hashtags photos and check out the different styles of the
purses. I get inspiration from the details, like the chains, and that’s how I
would get ideas for the shoes. Because a lot of the Chanel shoes don’t look
like the purses. So I think that’s what makes my shoes stand out so they catch
certain people’s eyes, like Tami. The first Chanel-inspired shoes I posted
online were the ones for my friend, and I said, “Tami, check these out.” Then
Tami said, “Send me a pair. I wear size 9.” And then I was like “Oh wow.”
Sounds like it’s luxury on a shoe!
Yup. When I decided I wanted to create a
jeweled shoe…something that would stop and make another person and make them
say, “Where did you get those shoes from?” When I wear my own customized
Chucks and I go to places to buy shoes after taking orders for clients, the
salespeople are always like, “Well, where did you get those from?!” I explain that I make them, and I’m forever passing
out my information to people. I have so many people stop me in the stores to
ask me about both my shoes and accessories. A lot of people are liking what I
do, which is different for me, because I’m not use to having strangers approach
me or stare at me. Sometimes, I’m like, “Why is she looking at me like that?”
And it’s usually because the woman wants to ask me about my shoes and
accessories.
So how did you get involved with customizing accessories and shoes
for celebrities?
When I first started, I had no
support…really. No support from my family and friends, except for my mother who
has always been a very good supporter of my dreams. She’s always had my back.
The Brize Collection comes from my last name, and I always wanted to do
something big and put a stamp on my name, because my last name is very unique.
And I felt I had to create a voice for myself and get out there and reach out
to people that I know. And certain people accepted what I did. Like I did stuff
for Trina Rockstarr. I did stuff for Trina Braxton – I sent her some earrings.
I did stuff for LaLa [Anthony]…sent her some “Picasso” earrings with a picture
of her son, Kiyan. I did a lot of things throughout the years for a few
celebrities, and people who big in entertainment, such as major event planners
in Atlanta. You know, I felt like once I reached out to them, and do stuff for
them, that people would notice. And that’s what happened…people noticed. Then
somehow, you have to be persistent, make a voice for yourself, and believe in
yourself…and then everybody would then follow suit. Because the people who
didn’t believe in me, or when I was doing it back in the day, I would get “Oh
that’s cute.” And that was that. It was like what I was doing was nothing.
But when I really started to make a lot of
accessories, there were a lot of girls that I noticed started doing the same
thing. Which I didn’t get offended – I didn’t feel like they were copying off
of me. If I gave someone an idea and they want to try and make something happen
from it, and do it, and they’re finding something else to do with their time…I
was proud to see that. And I thought, maybe I’m settin’ a trend here!
So when it came to reaching out to the big names…How did you go
about doing that?
Really, it was the Picasso earrings I did for
LaLa that set me out there a little bit. Her stylist, Jillian, who also styled
Whitney Houston and a lot of people, is a friend of mine on Facebook. And
Jillian told me that she was going to reach out to LaLa’s PR rep at the time,
Jazmyn Hurts, and have her contact me with the hopes that my pieces could
possibly be featured on LaLa’s blog. So then, when Jasmine actually contacted
me, she said that she would like to give LaLa some of my accessories and that
she really liked the picture earrings [Picasso earrings]. So she sent me LaLa’s
favorite picture of Kiyan to make that happen. And when they were done, we sent
them to LaLa…and she loved them. After that, I was dropping off earrings and
accessories to Trina Rockstarr, because LaLa and Trina are good friends. So
when Trina would come into town, I would get a phone call and her camp would
let me know she’s interested and that she was doing a show, and invited me out
there. And I met with Trina in her trailer, and then sent her several
accessories. I’ve actually met with her a few times.
It’s great that you never let the lack of support stop you from
focusing on your craft…
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| ("Picasso" earrings for LaLa!) |
Yeah, gradually I brought back what I did as
a kid with the clothes. I just kept going with it…I just kept building. I have
so many ideas on what I want to do for my brand, and how I want to do it. It started
by doing Chucks for some kids, and honestly, I just kept going with it. My mom
would help me sometimes when I would get orders, ‘cause I work two jobs. So she
helps if I get overwhelmed, and she makes things herself. We’re always emailing
each other, and sending pictures to each other’s phone about what we’re working
on. The shoes, lately, have been the biggest thing.
So with celebrities wearing your designs, you must be so proud of
yourself. It’s amazing!
I tell people all the time it’s persistence.
I’ve been doing this on and off for years, and it’s time I just ride it out and
stick to it. I had bumps in the road. I have been in situations where I
invested money, and had to do things to correct contracts and money was lost
for photo shoots. I was trying to do everything on my own. Even with working,
trying to pay bills, and going through life in general, including situations
with family, I still kept going. I kept posting pictures and putting myself out
there. I was telling people that these shoes are gonna be dope, and I already
was gassing stuff up. When you have self-esteem about yourself and have pride
in what you do, it does make a difference. Years ago, I would post stuff but
not really amp it up. And I would get responses like, “Yeah, that’s cute.” Now
I get “Girl, send me some stuff!” So being persistent and speaking to your
dream is important. You cannot give up, because you will get a thousand no’s
before you get that one yes. My preacher said that. It has been just a blessing
to me to see people that can afford red-bottoms and have lines of their own,
and still support what I’m doing. That, to me, is amazing. Trina Rockstar is
very down-to-earth. She told me, “Girl, as long as it’s cute, I’ll wear it.” That’s
just how she is. Tami could get her Louboutin sneakers, or whatever, but she
was like, “Send me those!” I knew she really wanted them, that it wasn’t just
talk. That meant a lot to me, because I come from no support.
So how does the whole process work if I wanted a customized pair
of Chucks? Do I get the shoe first and then I send to you…?
When a client is out of town, I get their
size and go ahead and get the shoes myself. That is included in the overall
price. I receive payments trough PayPal, because as of right now, I don’t have
a website. I’m currently working on that. (I had actually invested money into
someone who was supposed to do that, but I was taken advantage of.) So
currently, I am getting pictures together, especially those for little girls. I
make hair ribbons, jackets, the Chucks…I want the website to adapt to
everybody.
In general, what is the price range for your children’s line and
your adult line?
For the Chanel-inspired Chucks, those are at
$300. There are a lot of crystals and details that go into the creation of the
shoe. For the kids, the prices start at $100. Normally, I try to keep it around
that price for children, because their feet are smaller and the shoes don’t
require as much material. I do my best to not be outrageous, because I
understand how it feels to like something but can’t afford. When a lot of artists
and celebrities come out with brands, they really don’t take into consideration
that the majority of the people that support you and got you to where you are
cannot afford your collection. So I’m always humble and try to do things within
reasonable range. People say you gotta
charge for your time, but for me, the feedback I get is worth more than
anything, honestly. I love to see people wear my stuff proudly and take
pictures in it, and then tweet it. Like Trina Braxton – She had tweeted a
picture of my earrings and said something like she has a new, favorite pair of
earrings now. That made me feel good, because in the end, that’s Trina Braxton.
That’s Toni Braxton’s sister.
When you’re creating, what is guiding your inspiration?
I have a relationship with God, and I
honestly feel that he places certain people in your life for a reason. I get
excited when I’m coming up with ideas, and I’m excited when something’s halfway
done and I know it’s just going to be so cute. I was so gassed up about Tami’s
shoes, especially when I put the crystals on them. It’s so exciting to see
things come to life; something that you have pictured in your head…And it may
come out better than what it was envisioned to be. That’s also what keeps me
going. And I like to have input from my customers; I don’t just make something
custom and not have them involved in the process. For instance, if a person has a purse that
they really like, I ask them to take a picture and send it to me. Then I will
feed off of that, and make it come to life. I have everybody involved.
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| (Guest star from "LaLa's Full Court Life" |
My goal is to create things that will not be
easily given away or thrown away. Just like with Tami, I don’t think she’d give
away her shoes or throw them away. Same thing with LaLa – the Picasso earrings
feature a picture of her baby. Certain styles come and go, but I know those
will never fade out because that’s her son and they’re handmade.
About how long does it take you to complete an item?
It’s different with each person, because it
depends on what they like. Some things
that people ask me for, I have to go and look at more than what product and do
my research. Then I can find certain
pieces to be able to do exactly what the client is asking for. Because I work two jobs, I am only able to get
in about two hours in on a shoe. On my days off, I can knock a pair of shoes
out in two days. I enjoy people calling me personally to place their orders,
because I get a chance to talk to people that I don’t even know. I had a girl
tell me that I’m a great inspiration. That really touches me, even though I’m
still trying to get to where I want to be! But I understand, because I look to
people that inspire me too, like Keyshia Ka’oire. I respect her and admire her.
I even had the opportunity to meet her. I would watch her documentary like once
a week and study how she built her brand. How she turned nothing into
something. She’s said that she was even told that when she came out with a
lipstick line that it wasn’t going to amount to anything. So, I felt like our
stories are so connected. I have a lot of dreams and a lot that I want for my
collection.
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| (Glamming up the kids in Brize Collection!) |
It’s great that your story is turning into an inspirational story
for others. Like you said, persistence is key…
Yeah, I’m so happy you reached out to me!
This is my first interview. You know, I want to be in the position where I can
help people. Where I can help them build their brand, whether it’s business or
entertainment. I want to give back and help people. It’s so hard nowadays, and
it’s easy to lose hope. That’s why I say you’ve just got to be persistent and
not give up. You can’t. I’ve been pushing and pushing my jewelry, and
customizing for so long…People started to see that I wasn’t going to shut up
about this. I was my own cheerleader for a very long time. I’m so happy for the
Internet, because without it, I wouldn’t’ have connected with celebrities like LaLa,
Trina Rockstarr, Trina Braxton, or Tami Roman.
In conclusion, what are your plans for Brize Collection in 2014?
My
plans are to continue to grow to become a vendor for boutiques in different
states. I have dreams to add Brize Cosmetics later in the year.
Thursday, January 16, 2014
My Top 5 Tips to Embracing (the Fab IDEA of) "Networking"
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All of my communications professors would use that word in statements like these: "Networking is what will get you far in life" and "The best way to meet people is to network." Grrrr...I used to be so confused. Maybe 'cause my classmates didn't question it, I didn't feel comfortable raising my hand to ask what networking was. Shame on me.
But it didn't take me very long to realize I was already doing that. At Nordstrom, I would share with my personal customers that I also love to write and how I would be graduating with a print journalism degree. They in turn would ask me if they can give my number to their daughters who needed help figuring out what they should study in college. I would strike up conversations with gals at coffee shops if they had really great style, which would eventually turn into giving each other leads to fabulous places to shop. To this day, I've yet to Google or look up the word "networking" in a dictionary. I just trust what it can accomplish. To me, networking is the process of sharing and receiving information while building a working relationship with a person, organization, company, etc., all in the most natural, innovative, and healthiest way possible.
One of my graphic designer friends recently said to me, "You're lucky. You doing well because you know a lot of people in the industry." I immediately reminded him of the tireless nights I have had and continue to have due to writing, emailing current and prospective contacts back, creating activity on social media, and basically, working my booty off. I told him "luck" or anything for that matter didn't just happen to me. I've been out of college for 10 years, and I still understand that all relationships take work -- professional ones, no doubt. He then responded with, "True. You're right. Maybe you can help me with that."
So, all that said, I'd like to give my top 5 tips to successful networking. I'm not a know-it-all; I'm just sharing what I have experienced based on my trial and errors (many errors). There are tons of books out there that I'm sure deliver helpful, wise info to keep you moving in the right direction. And, well...these are mine. Hope they keep you inspired:
1) Be proactive. Soooo...you're at a cocktail party and you're chatting with someone amazingly interesting. After your wheels start turning and you realize that you'd like to continue communicating with him or her after the party, especially because you two vibed so well, remember to ask for a business card or a Twitter handle, or something. Whatever you do, don't walk away with regret. Let that person know you are somebody too, and be genuine on why you would like to continue to keep in contact. If you're the first person to reach out, with confidence, you'll probably impress that person and show him or her you mean business. Feels much better to walk away with a smile. Believe me.
2) Use social media. Speaking of social media, if you're not on Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, Pinterest, Instagram, Google+, etc., you gotta spend some time working on that. If you are pursuing a passion and you're not on a major platform, you're missing out on the potential for opportunity. I get 90 percent of my fashion, celeb, lifestyle, entertainment, and health news from social media. I either get it directly from the source or I get it from a friend or follower (in which I then research facts later on). Having direct contact to some of the biggest influencers, decision-makers, companies, and celebrities in the world is pretty powerful. And of course, you can communicate with some incredible, like-minded individuals. Don't you wanna be up in the mix? Do you think that if a company you were trying to work for looked you up online and found nothing about you or your work...that you would impress them? Think about it. And with that, try to keep what you can professional. Remember, you can always have different profiles for different reasons.
3) Give and do not expect the same in return. I can't tell you how many times I've promoted articles, songs, music, books, TV shows, and tons more regarding people I respect. Some of these people I know on a personal level and some are technically strangers. Because I promote what I think is great and what I think others would find great too, I don't expect anything in return. Sure, it would be awesome to get recognized from that person, company, or organization I'm promoting...But I've learned to not hold my breath. I don't promote with expectations. Some people are busy, don't care enough, or just aren't interested in building or maintaining that working relationship. Be fine with that. If you reach out to someone and you don't get the results you wanted, you should see that as a personal success anyway because you were proactive. All is good in my world if I don't "gain" anything in return. But all is even better when they do...Yes, that's a great feeling of joy. It's also a great feeling when someone initiates and reaches out to me first. Because I value networking to the extent that I do, I enjoy being reciprocal in some way or another. When it comes to networking, I live by The Golden Rule.
4) Be honest. If you find yourself really interested in interviewing someone...or taking him or her out to be a business dinner...or requesting an invite to an event...Just be honest with your intention. If you're not, things will fall apart in one way or another. Either you will be called out on your BS and you will come across as anything but genuine. (Who wants to network with a faker?) That, my friends, is the quickest way to kill networking. Remember: That person knows that person...knows that person. Don't make a bad name for yourself by choice. Come on.
5) Under-promise and over-deliver. Pretty self-explanatory, and oh-so-very important. Do your best without over-promising on delivery, deadlines, or even products. Just work hard without talking a big game. It's easy to do that when you really do have good intentions, strive to exceed expectations, and are dying to kill a project (in a good way). Just take the time to make sure all of your bases are covered first.
As I put this list together, so many other areas came to mind. But I'd like to leave this post open to you to provide some of your own networking tips. Go for it! Thanks for reading. xo
Looking for some fashion and shopping tips? Check out some of my other articles:
"My 3 Simple, Money-Saving Shopping Tips"
"My #1 Tips to Surviving Bad Customer Service: SPEAK UP"
"Do You Have a Shopping Fund?"
"Top 10 Random Tips from a Personal Shopper"
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Hmmmm....Is Google+ All That?
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| (Image courtesy of Alex!) |
...And speaking of social media (VoteKinsey.com!), I'd love it if you took a few moments to help out a colleague of mine at Firm Media, Alexander Valentine. Alex is in his final quarter of school (MBA, here he comes!), and for an independent research study project, he chose to create a survey about the social media site that often gets mixed reviews: Google +
I took the survey myself, which really makes you think a bit about the frequency of your usage with social media, Google+, and how it compares to Facebook. Took me about, say...10 or 15 minutes, tops! But that may not be very accurate, because I had to spew comments over to Alex after every question. ("See, the reason I choose this answer is 'cause...") I'm guessing you may be a bit more focused when you take it though. It's just the talkaholic and over-analyzer in me, I suppose.
As the social media coordinator at Firm Media (Yup, I wear many hats!) I am also quite interested to know about the data that comes from Alex's survey. As an incentive, if you take a few moments to do his survey, I will give your page or site a shout-out on my Good Girl Gone Shopping Facebook page!
Have fun! We thank you for taking Alex's social media survey!
*Last day to take survey is this Friday (10/25) by 5 p.m., pac time. You must be 18 or over and a U.S. resident.
Saturday, October 19, 2013
VoteKinsey.com! ('Cause She Says So!)
Kinsey Schofield. My, this chick is on fire! She's a smiley, doggy-lovin' social media strategist and TV commentator you gotta keep on your radar. The stylishly nationally recognized (and hilarious!) personality was listed #25 in The 100 Greatest Women in Social Media, has more than 100K followers on Twitter, and is a fabulous celeb interviewer. Kinsey made her television debut alongside celebrities like P. Diddy, 50 Cent, and The Kardashians while starring on E!’s event planning competition series, Party Monsters.
OK, so right now, Kinsey is competing for the title of "Most Fashionable" for Arizona Foothills Magazine. According to the comedic campaigner, "If I win, I will be featured in their 'Best Of' issue, and I'd love the opportunity!" Kinsey most definitely is working her arse off to get this title. Just check out some of her campaign pics below, which I took from her Instagram profile! So why not spread the word and help out my social media friend? I've got nothing but love for her ambition. As a writer and social media professional myself, I truly dig her personality. She's, like, real. Hence, her clever campaign antics and being kind enough to take the time to answer my 7 interview questions (see below).
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| (Stickers galore!!) |
So here's how to vote for Kinsey: Go to www.VoteKinsey.com and register. You will receive an email in your inbox with your password. Then log in, click the circle next to "Kinsey Schofield" enter the code at the bottom (to prove you're a human), and then click the "VOTE" button. And when you're done, tweet Kinsey at @kinseyschofield so she can personally thank you!
My TOP 7 Fun Fashion Questions for Kinsey Schofield:
If you could raid any celeb's closet...Who would it be?
Patricia Field! She has the most unbelievable eye for fierce and funky. I find myself envious of all of the characters she dresses and she inspires me to wear my tutu to the dog park!
What is your favorite fashion trend?
I noticed a slew of fierce flats at NYFW this year and I was beyond relieved. I look tragic when I walk in heels for long periods of time. I've had multiple Britney moments where I'm hopping barefoot around Downtown Los Angeles trying to get to a shoot. So I would say, feeling sexy and confident in flats. Knowing I'm not going to fall on my face or be taller than all of the cute boys.
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What style do you think looks bad on every woman and should be avoided at all costs?
I think we all have that single friend that wonders why she's single or isn't treated well by men, and you're like, "Because you don't dress appropriately." There is a time and place for cleavage and lace... You can be as sexy in a peacoat as you can be in a bikini! I guess the answer is: desperation.
Your favorite fashion designer?
DVF. I'm curvy so I've spent more time than I care to relive being disappointed in a dressing room. DVF is reliable, timeless, and trendy. I know when I need an outfit for a specific occasion or event, that I will find something that makes me feel confident within the DVF collection. When it comes to street wear, I live in Chaser Brand tanks and Black Milk leggings.
Your most treasured item in your closet?
My leather jacket from TOPSHOP. I never get to wear it when I'm in Arizona (Hot, Hot Heat!), but whenever I'm in LA, I wear it religiously! And sadly I pack it with me wherever I go. It's a pathetic kind of love.
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What do you think all women should own at least one of?
Isn't it amazing what a red lip can do to you and your outfit? Completely shake up a plain white tee and some boyfriend jeans with a red lip or dramatize your basic LBD with the addition. I think owning MAC's Russian Red is an absolute necessity!
If you win "Most Fashionable"...Which social media site will you hit first?!
OMG. What a cute question, it made me smile. ...Still smiling... Instagram is my favorite, but Twitter is the most attentive! So, I'd have to say that Twitter will be the first to know!
Thanks Kinsey! Good luck! xoxo
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